Eloping: A Non-Conventional Adventure

The idea of eloping was heavily frowned upon in the past. It was associated with indiscipline, and the rejection of family values as couples fled their homes to another location to get married. Fast forward to the 21st century, the idea has become more popular, especially as the Coronavirus pandemic dealt a blow to regular activities and people had to adapt to the new normal. Today, eloping is an option for couples looking to get married without the usual pomp and pageantry associated with grandeur weddings.

The most notable factor in elopement is a drastically reduced wedding expenditure, meaning the couple need not worry about the usual costs that come with weddings attended by hundreds of guests. The only elements the about-to-be married couple would have to think of are the wedding rings, attire, and other minor details for the special day. A few might plan for minimal catering for the very few witnesses they invite. Regarding videography and photos, the advent of the smartphone makes this possible without having to hire an entire team.

Despite the spontaneity associated with eloping, it’s a legal requirement in the UK to inform your local registry office with a minimum prior notice period of 29 full days before the wedding. These legal requirements form the foundation for your marriage license and how long it will take to have it.

Indeed, there may be feelings of guilt for not being able to invite everyone you’d have loved to attend your wedding. Therefore, the decision to elope must not be a unilateral one. Together with your partner, decide on what works for both of you.